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7 Destructive Habits of Incompetent People

WARNING! If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage in these 7 destructive habits of an incompetent person.

  1. They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things

Yup. They see problems in every opportunity.

They complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ruining their plans for the day. They blame the wind for ruining their hair.

They think that everyone is against them. They see the problems but never the solutions.

Every little bit of difficulty is exaggerated to the point of tragedy. Failures are catastrophes. They become discouraged easily instead of learning from their mistakes.

They never seem to move forward because they’re always afraid to come out of their comfort zones.

  1. They Act Before They Think

They move based on instinct or impulse. If they see something they like, they buy it at once without any second thought. Then they see something better. They regret & curse for not able to take advantage of the bargain.

Then they spend & spend again until nothing’s left. They don’t think about the future. What they’re after is the pleasure they will experience at present.

They don’t think about the consequences.

  1. They Talk Much More Than They Listen

They want to be the star of the show. So, they always talk in away that would make them heroes, even to the point of lying.

Often, they are not aware that what they’re saying is not sensible anymore.

When other people advise them, they close their ears because they’re too proud to admit their mistakes.

In their mind they’re always right and will reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

  1. They Give Up Easily

Successful people treat failures as steppingstones to success.

Incompetent ones call it quits upon recognizing the first signs of failure.

At first, they may be excited to start a project. But they lose interest quickly, especially when they encounter errors.

Then they go & search for a new one. Same story & same results. Incompetent people don’t have the persistence to go and fulfil their goals.

  1. They Try to Bring Others Down to Their Level

Incompetent people envy successful people. Instead of working hard to be like them, they spread rumours and try to bring them down.

They should ask for help but are too proud to do so are too negative to accomplish anything.

  1. They Waste Their Time

They don’t know what to do next. They just eating or drink to excess, veg in front of the TV or just stare into space avoiding what they should be doing.

It’s okay to nothing, but if that is that you do then – nothing will happened. They need a proper balance between work & pleasure.

  1. They Take the Easy Way Out

If there are two roads to choose from, incompetent people would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end.

They don’t want any suffering or hardship. They want a good life.

What they don’t know is that what you reap is what you sow. Efforts & action will not go unnoticed.

If only they would be willing to sacrifice a little, they would be much better off.

Successful people made it through trials & error. They never give up. They are willing to do everything necessary to achieve what they aspire for in life.

About David Lawson

Finding the Light is a locally owned and operated counselling and life coaching business based in Bundaberg. We seek to empower our clients to find their way forward to a better life by using the approaches of counselling or coaching. If this blog article has raised more questions please contact us by email or call us on 0407 585 497 to arrange a time for us to discuss the article. Mention this blog and we will give you a FREE 30 minute session to discuss.

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