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Mistakes Made in Relationships

Relationships are difficult to sustain. Very few relationships sustain for long with both partners totally happy. Most people carry through a relationship without any joy. We all start our new relationships with hopes, dreams, and wonderful aspirations. But oftentimes, we see couples, or in our own relationships, where things turn sour. What can be done to keep a relationship strong and joyous? These are some of the common mistakes I see: Not... read more

Changing for the better

To help us break bad habits Marshall Goldsmith in his book What Got You Here Won’t Get You There has created a seven-step method for changing our interpersonal relationships and making changes permanent. Step 1 Seek Feedback Successful people have two problems dealing with negative feedback. (a) they don’t want to hear it and (b) we don’t want to give it to them. To break this chain and gain the benefit of feedback, they need to let go of... read more

Habits Worth Breaking

Let’s look at some of the habit’s worth breaking Goldsmith covers in his book What Got You Here Won’t Get You There. Habit A: Winning too much There’s a fine line between being competitive and over-competitive, between winning when it counts and when no one’s counting – and successful people cross that line with alarming frequency. Habit B: Adding too much value I come to you with an idea that you think is very good. Rather than... read more

What Got You Here Won’t Get You There – Part 1

  Some people go through life with an unerring sense of direction. They know who they are and where they’re going. We feel secure around them. We feel that any surprises will only be pleasant surprises. They are our role models and heroes. However, we also meet some people of the opposite trait.   They think they have all the answers, we see it as arrogance. People like this don’t realize that these flaws may sabotage their otherwise golden... read more

5 Important Details for Developing Rapport

  Let us look at the basics of developing rapport with others.   In a nutshell, what it takes is to ask questions, have a positive, open attitude, encourage an open exchange of communications (both verbal and unspoken), listen to verbal and unspoken communications, and share positive feedback.   Here are important details on each step: 1. Ask Questions Building rapport is similar to interviewing someone for a job or it can be like a reporter... read more

6 Keys to Finding True Happiness

The pursuit of happiness is one of the basic elements of human existence. So why are so many people unhappy then? Most likely people are not happy because they are missing one of the six keys to happiness. Determine The most important key to your personal happiness is determining that you will be happy. For many people, their personal happiness is not a priority in their life. Too often, we focus on the happiness of others before our own. While... read more

5 Relationship Killers and How to Avoid Them

Here are five major relationship killers you may want to avoid: Controlling Behaviour – Some people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behaviour. Controlling behaviour falls into two major categories: overt control and covert control. Overt control is attacking which includes blaming, anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism, and ridicule. Covert control includes... read more

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